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Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Wed Jan 26, 2022 12:31 pm

After 10 arthroscopic knee operations on my left knee, it finally seems to have had enough.

Despite assurances from the head of the department at Hopkins that I don't need a knee replacement, it looks like I'm headed that way in a March. The timing sucks - No Bermuda race etc, but if I wait until September or even July, my wife will either divorce or kill me (justifiably). Sorry to vent. Just feeling shitty.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby H B » Wed Jan 26, 2022 11:36 pm

Ugh, I have a buddy that has had several arhtro's (maybe 3 or 4??) but no replacement yet..he is 63 I think, and still tells me it hurts a lot. He does the A2B on Pursuit usually. Right now he is retired (his wife is semi-retired so they occasionally need Internet access) and they are cruising around the country in their RV. I suspect they will be back here for the next one, but he sold his own boat, and as far as I know only races on Pursuit at present.

I had both shoulders rebuilt due to rotator cuff tears before I was 40 if it makes you feel better...but my knees are holding up OK at 50. I don't run 5Ks and stuff anymore, but I try to walk and bike several miles per week.

Hang in there Joel...and if you do get the surgery and are not familiar with compression ice water therapy (i.e., renting a unit during rehab like Game Ready) I highly recommend it. 10 years ago, my insurance did not cover it, but at $10/day for a month out-of-pocket to rent it for a month on the 2nd shoulder vs the first shoulder without it. It was worth every penny in terms of the recovery.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby Jamie » Thu Jan 27, 2022 8:48 am

If the alternative weren't so bad....

Glad to hear it worked. :thumbup:

My son used the Game Ready when he repaired his ACL (for the second time). Well worth it.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby kimbottles » Thu Jan 27, 2022 10:47 am

I am lining up for my second hip. The first one was so successful I am eagerly looking forward to it. But then again I will soon be 74. Better living through modern medicine.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Thu Jan 27, 2022 1:04 pm

Thanks guys!

This is supposedly 'minimally invasive' outpatient surgery. I'm going to let me crew know what is going on, but I'm hoping to do A2B, even if I spend most of the time as navigator.

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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby H B » Thu Jan 27, 2022 5:28 pm

That's a good attitude, Joel. Navving to Bermuda is better than sitting on shore! :thumbup:

Kim, I had a friend who at around 73 had his 2nd hip done after he'd already had hip #1 plus both knees replaced. Sadly, his body, nor the replacement parts aren't really what gave out. He fell off his boat and drowned a couple years ago when cruising by himself.

That sure beats having a heart attack (like my cousin at 46) or getting smashed into by some a$$hole on a highway somewhere. (RIP, Irving!) 8-)
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby Tim Ford » Fri Jan 28, 2022 3:50 pm

Oh man, sorry to hear this Joel. But great that you'll still be able to do A2B! And heck, if you can't vent here, where can you?
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby kimbottles » Fri Jan 28, 2022 6:57 pm

H B wrote:………Kim, I had a friend who at around 73 had his 2nd hip done after he'd already had hip #1 plus both knees replaced. Sadly, his body, nor the replacement parts aren't really what gave out. He fell off his boat and drowned a couple years ago when cruising by himself.……


Well, that sucks! But as you say, there are worse ways to go.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby H B » Fri Jan 28, 2022 10:25 pm

kimbottles wrote:
H B wrote:………Kim, I had a friend who at around 73 had his 2nd hip done after he'd already had hip #1 plus both knees replaced. Sadly, his body, nor the replacement parts aren't really what gave out. He fell off his boat and drowned a couple years ago when cruising by himself.……


Well, that sucks! But as you say, there are worse ways to go.


Yeah, I only knew Irving for a few years thru work, but I wish I'd met him years earlier. My daytime moneymaking gig is DoD Contractor, but it was nice (and a bit rare) to find another sailboat buddy at work. He was a cool and interesting character. I want to be him when I grow up, except for maybe live a little bit longer than he did, but retire earlier. He built a beautiful house on about 10 acres in Virginia and the only reason he was still working was to pay off the house. Laura and I keep in touch with his widow and send her a Christmas card.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Tue Feb 01, 2022 11:58 am

I'm set for March 10. My blood work was good. Still need a physical and EKG.
They tell me it will outpatient.
Gives me 11 weeks to recover, and about 5 weeks to get the boat ready for the race.

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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby Benno von Humpback » Wed Feb 02, 2022 9:20 pm

Good luck and swift recovery, Joel. I don’t know anyone with a knee replacement who regrets it. Janell is due for two of them, but says they’ll have to catch her first.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Thu Feb 03, 2022 9:28 am

Benno von Humpback wrote:Good luck and swift recovery, Joel. I don’t know anyone with a knee replacement who regrets it. Janell is due for two of them, but says they’ll have to catch her first.


Thanks Eric! Hopefully I can be a model for Janell.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby avramd » Wed Mar 09, 2022 9:18 pm

Are you still on track for tomorrow?

If so, good luck!

TheOffice wrote:I'm set for March 10. My blood work was good. Still need a physical and EKG.
They tell me it will outpatient.
Gives me 11 weeks to recover, and about 5 weeks to get the boat ready for the race.

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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby Tim Ford » Thu Mar 10, 2022 9:00 am

GOOD LUCK TO JOEL TODAY!!! I believe today is the day.

Oh I see you predicted it too, Avram. Well done!
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby H B » Thu Mar 10, 2022 9:22 am

The meds should have worn off well for him to give a report tomorrow...just gotta keep this thread up at the top so he does not get distracted. :)
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Fri Mar 11, 2022 4:15 pm

Sorry posted my update in the What are you doing this weekend thread. Surgery went well and I was home by 3:00

Got achy this afternoon so I took 5 mg of Oxy- first in 12 hours. Tomorrow is the post surgery shower. Always a welcome event!
Thanks for the support!
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby BeauV » Sat Mar 12, 2022 7:13 am

Glad you're doing relatively well. From what I understand, it's upward and onward from her on.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby avramd » Sat Mar 12, 2022 12:02 pm

TheOffice wrote:Sorry posted my update in the What are you doing this weekend thread. Surgery went well and I was home by 3:00

Got achy this afternoon so I took 5 mg of Oxy- first in 12 hours. Tomorrow is the post surgery shower. Always a welcome event!
Thanks for the support!
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Sweet! Way to go!

What's a shower?
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby kimbottles » Sun Mar 13, 2022 4:07 pm

Well DAMN! I got another hip replacement the same day (March 10) and I have to wait a week for my first shower. Can not get the pico vacuum pump wet.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby BeauV » Mon Mar 14, 2022 5:55 am

kimbottles wrote:Well DAMN! I got another hip replacement the same day (March 10) and I have to wait a week for my first shower. Can not get the pico vacuum pump wet.


Poor wife, married to a stinky old guy like you. I feel sorry for my Admiral sometimes. She'll say: "Really, didn't your mother teach you to shower every day!!??!!

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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby Olaf Hart » Mon Mar 14, 2022 6:06 am

BeauV wrote:
kimbottles wrote:Well DAMN! I got another hip replacement the same day (March 10) and I have to wait a week for my first shower. Can not get the pico vacuum pump wet.


Poor wife, married to a stinky old guy like you. I feel sorry for my Admiral sometimes. She'll say: "Really, didn't your mother teach you to shower every day!!??!!

:lol: :lol:


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It’s not much of an excuse though, our tanks are three quarters full after the driest summer in 40 years.

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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Mon Mar 14, 2022 9:07 am

Kim,

Hoping for a fast and complete recovery for you! At least you know the routine.

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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Sun Mar 20, 2022 11:44 am

Day 10 report

Making slow progress. PT is basically range of motion exercises. I can go from almost straight to almost 90 degrees. I'm trying to cut back on Gabopentin during the day because it knocks me on my ass.
Hardest thing to do is sleep. I am taking 5 mg Oxy at bedtime. I strained my hip flexor, so I have to ice and massage it.
Bandage comes off end of the week.
5 weeks to boat launch!
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby kimbottles » Mon Mar 21, 2022 10:30 am

TheOffice wrote:Day 10 report

Making slow progress. PT is basically range of motion exercises. I can go from almost straight to almost 90 degrees. I'm trying to cut back on Gabopentin during the day because it knocks me on my ass.
Hardest thing to do is sleep. I am taking 5 mg Oxy at bedtime. I strained my hip flexor, so I have to ice and massage it.
Bandage comes off end of the week.
5 weeks to boat launch!


I feel your pain, literally!
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Thu Mar 31, 2022 10:22 am

Three weeks since the surgery, 3 weeks until I can resume normal activities a/k/a sail!

Recovery is going well (or so I'm told) Graduated from the walker to a cane a week ago. I can bend the knee over 100 degrees and can straighten it completely sometimes. I'm riding an exercise bike without resistance and doing my other exercises, with PT 2x a week. Still using ice and taking gabopentin, celebrex, tylenol and baby aspirin. Getting more sleep!

Kim, Hope your rehab is successful!

Thanks for all the support everyone!

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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby kimbottles » Thu Mar 31, 2022 11:43 am

TheOffice wrote:Three weeks since the surgery, 3 weeks until I can resume normal activities a/k/a sail!

Recovery is going well (or so I'm told) Graduated from the walker to a cane a week ago. I can bend the knee over 100 degrees and can straighten it completely sometimes. I'm riding an exercise bike without resistance and doing my other exercises, with PT 2x a week. Still using ice and taking gabopentin, celebrex, tylenol and baby aspirin. Getting more sleep!

Kim, Hope your rehab is successful!

Thanks for all the support everyone!

Joel


Today is also three weeks since the left hip replacement. I can do the cane sometimes, but the walker is still best. Doing my PT and getting a little better everyday. I also hope to get down on the boats sometime in the next three weeks. Glad you are doing well Joel. I guess we are now surgery buddies. Cheers!
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby Rob McAlpine » Thu Mar 31, 2022 1:54 pm

Last weekend I was skiing double blacks at Taos. Last night I tripped going down the stairs, luckily I just suffered a sprained ankle, could have been much worse, Beth is out of town so I might still be laying there leaking awkward fluids.

It was stupid inattention, I was walking and reading my Kindle.

Laying here elevating and icing, feeling like I got old and stupid in 4 days.
Sometimes I sit and think. Other times I just sit.

They talk about my drinking, but never my thirst.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby TheOffice » Thu Mar 31, 2022 2:03 pm

Rob McAlpine wrote:Last weekend I was skiing double blacks at Taos. Last night I tripped going down the stairs, luckily I just suffered a sprained ankle, could have been much worse, Beth is out of town so I might still be laying there leaking awkward fluids.

It was stupid inattention, I was walking and reading my Kindle.

Laying here elevating and icing, feeling like I got old and stupid in 4 days.


At least the feeling old will pass in a few days! :) Good to hear it was not worse! I hope you put some of that ice in good scotch. Works much better than in an ice bag.
Never got past skiing blues, but never skied deep powder. I've got a feeling my skiing days are behind me. At least I can use the helmet if someone has to up the mast at sea.
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Re: Getting old sucks!

Postby BeauV » Thu Mar 31, 2022 8:15 pm

Rob -- I'm really glad it wasn't worse. Due to being exposed to a group of folks who then tested positive for the VID, I was sleeping in our upstairs guest bedroom up to last night. Hitting the head at night coming downstairs in the middle of the night was what I now consider a "high risk" moment. I grip the handrail and focus. I had a similar nearly-bad fall to yours. Scared the S**T out of me. Now I pay attention. What happened to our nimble athleticism? I guess it faded a decade ago. (mine did)

Stay well, and I'm really glad it isn't worse.
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Postby Rob McAlpine » Fri Apr 01, 2022 3:20 pm

Thanks Beau, sobering for sure. I was trying to keep from hitting my head on steel railings or fetching up had against the wall at the bottom. I lay there assessing for about 10 minutes, figuring the difference between "hurts" and "injured".

My cell phone was back up the stairs, but the ice and ibuprofen was on the floor I was on. Took a good 30 minutes before I could gather icepacks, water, and get up to bed. I ended up crawling up the stairs.

But nothing like Ish and his broken leg.
Sometimes I sit and think. Other times I just sit.

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