by BeauV » Mon Jan 27, 2014 12:50 pm
Long ago.... when I was a little kid....
Me: "Dad, I wish I could fly like those birds!!"
Dad: "We all wish that, but we do other things they can't do."
Me: "They can swoop and hover and dive and it is so GREAT!! I wish I could fly!!!" (wistfully)
Dad: "You know what a little bird says to his Dad?"
Me: "Huh, no."
Dad: "I wish I could walk and run and skip and ride a bike and ski and ice skate and sail and surf and swim..."
Me: "Dad!! You know what I mean."
Dad: "Well, you tell me what you're willing to give up to be able to fly."
Me: "I'd give up a lot! Flying would be great."
Dad: "Would you give up running?"
Me: "Sure, I could just fly to where I wanted to go."
Dad: "Would you give up swimming?"
Me: "Sure, I don't really like to swim that much. You just made me learn how so I could sail."
Dad: "Would you give up sailing?
Me: "I don't know.... maybe"
Dad: "Would you give up being hugged by your Mom? Birds don't have arms, they can't hug."
Me: after a long pause, "Sure, big kids don't get hugs."
Dad: "Are you sure? I like hugs."
Me: "Well, maybe Mom could have arms and I'd have wings."
Dad: "Nope, you take your pick. Be a bird or be a boy, you can't be both."
Me: "I want to be a boy who can fly, like superman!"
Dad: "Nope, superman is made up, you get to choose. What'll it be, I can go to the lab and get you changed."
Me: worried now "Really?"
Dad: "No, I'm just kidding you, but what do you REALLY want?"
Me: "Hugs and other stuff like that."
Dad: "OK, come here and get one."
I'd forgotten that exchange until this thread. While I'd love to be a bird, to feel what they feel about flying in flocks. They are amazing the way they sense the air the way they do. It would be awfully difficult to give up hugs.
BV
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